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Pro-gay rights attitudes have reached high points this year, according to a new poll, with more Americans expressing tolerance.

Today, 57 percent of the American public believes homosexuality should be sanctioned as an acceptable alternative lifestyle – the highest the Gallup Poll has recorded since 1982. Also indicating higher tolerance, 59 percent of Americans believe homosexual relations should be legal.

The Gallup Poll has recorded a general increase over the past 20 years of those who believe homosexual relations should be legal. The statistic reached an all-time high in May 2003 at 60 percent but then fell to 50 percent in July of that year and has remained level through 2005. A June 2003 Supreme Court decision that struck down a Texas law banning homosexual sodomy appeared to have produced a backlash of public opposition to gay rights, the Gallup report noted. The leveled trend began rising again last year with 56 percent saying homosexual relations should be legal and today, the statistic is nearly at the record 60 percent mark.

Revealing a long-term increase in pro-gay rights attitudes, 46 percent (up from 27 percent in 1996) believe same-sex couples should be recognized by the law as valid with the same rights as traditional marriages. And the percentage of those who say they should not be recognized by the law as valid fell from 68 percent in 1996 to 53 percent today.

On the question of morality, Americans were found to be nearly evenly divided. Since 2001, the percentage of those who say homosexual relations are morally acceptable has increased from 40 percent to 47 percent. And for the first time in the 21st century, less than the majority of Americans say homosexual relations are morally wrong (49 percent). Last year, 51 percent said such relations are morally wrong.

At the same time, the majority of Americans say sex between an unmarried man and woman (59 percent), divorce (65 percent), and having a baby outside or marriage (54 percent) is morally acceptable.

As debates continue over the origin or cause of homosexuality, the Gallup Poll found that an increasing percentage of Americans believe homosexuality is something a person is born with. The poll showed 42 percent express such a view compared to 13 percent in 1977. And the percentage of Americans who believe homosexuality is due to factors such as upbringing and environment fell from 56 percent in 1977 to 35 percent today.

Among those who believe homosexuals are born that way, 78 percent say homosexuality should be considered an acceptable lifestyle. In contrast, among those who believe homosexuality is caused by upbringing or environmental factors, only 30 percent say it should be acceptable.

Gallup’s results support other surveys that indicate more open and accepting attitudes among today’s young adults. A recent Pew survey found 58 percent of 18-25-year-olds say homosexuality should be accepted.

The Gallup Poll found younger Americans aged 18-34 years old (75 percent) are more likely to express the same view than older Americans aged 55 years and older (45 percent). Women (61 percent) are also more likely than men (53 percent) to say homosexuality should be an acceptable alternative lifestyle, the poll further found. And highly religious Americans who attend church weekly (33 percent) are less likely to say it’s an acceptable lifestyle than those who seldom or never attend church (74 percent).

Results from the Gallup Poll are based on telephone interviews with 1,003 adults, aged 18 and older, conducted May 10-13, 2007.

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Some gay men are natural seducers, others learn through hard trial-and-error.If you fall into the latter category, here’s a few tips to save you some grief in the game of picking up gay men:

Steps

1. Tone down your repulsive aspects. Do you really need anyone to tell you that appearance is important to gay guys? Lose your gut, trim your beard, press your pants, get some new clothes with designer labels on them. The goal is not to look like Adonis (though that would be good if you can), but to maximize whatever natural attractiveness you have.

2. Stop letting your appearance be an excuse to hide. Have you ever seen a super-hot guy wander off with someone you wouldn’t give the time of day to? That’s because the art of seduction has a lot more to do with social skills than with naked physical attraction. It’s not 30 pounds you need to lose to pick up more men—it’s your inner fears.

3. Approach guys. Approach a lot of guys. To get started in the pick-up game, you have to get out of your shell. As hard as it may be, you need to go where gay men are and learn to approach them. And not just one or two guys, but many guys, guys single and in groups, old guys, young guys, and ugly guys, in the bars and in the bank line. If you can’t strike up a conversation, you don’t have a chance to pick up and eventually seduce someone you’re attracted to.

4. Don’t hesitate. Nothing conveys indecision and nervousness like hesitation. Indecision and nervousness are not attractive traits. So practice the three-second rule: train yourself to approach your target within three seconds of seeing him.

5. Learn some approaches. Approaches are an excuse—any excuse—to start a conversation with someone: “How do I get to Hyatt Hotel?â€? “There’s some lint on your collar.â€? “I noticed something about you…â€? The easiest of all approaches is simply to smile and say “hi.â€? Forget pick up lines–“I want to melt in your mouth, not in your hand.â€? “Did it hurt when you fell from heaven?â€?—they’re phony, convey too much sexual interest, and leave you no place to go.

6. Have a opener. You’ve exchanged a few words. What happens next is crucial. You’ve got to navigate from being a complete stranger that your target is humoring to being someone he actually wants to talk to. For that develop some openers, standard conversational ploys that will draw your target in. Try something startling: “That wasn’t your car on fire in the parking lot, was it?� “Did you see those two guys fighting outside?� Or get an opinion: “Hey, can I ask you a question? What’s the best way to get revenge on an ex? This guy I know…� Develop your opener into a little routine by adding vivid details (“One fireman was so hunky that…�) Get your target involved and keep him engaged until he gives signs of starting to relax. Sometimes it helps to give the opener a time constraint so that he thinks you’ll shortly be on your way (“I’ve got to go find my friend, but…)

7. Learn disinterested interest. He suspects you’re trying to pick him up, but keep him off balance to give time for his attraction to develop. That means to keep talking in a friendly way while pretending you’re not really that interested sexually.

8. Don’t compliment–neg. Since compliments (“I love your smile!â€?) give away your attraction, throw them in the dust bin with the pick-up lines. Instead, learn to neg. Negging is the art of giving a half-compliment, setting up a dissonance in your pick-up target. Examples: “I love your smile—are you wearing braces?â€? “That’s a nice shirt—did you get it at the outlet mall?â€? “I’ve never seen hair like that before.â€? The neg should always sound friendly and positive and only subliminally be insulting. It excites your subject by sending contradictory signals spinning in his brain, excitement he will be intrigued to resolve.

9. Demonstrate your social value to allow him to be attracted. Don’t stop talking, but don’t just talk aimlessly. Learn to be funny and entertaining and cast yourself in a positive light in the stories you tell. Tell him about the time you went camping and scared away the bear, or how great your new gym routine is making you feel. Talk about ex-boyfriends or hang a “friend� around your shoulder to demonstrate that others think you’re attractive. Give him, in other words, enough ammunition to allow himself to be attracted to you. When he is, you’ll see the signals in his eyes and body language that indicates his increasing interest.

10. Touch. Touch early and often to get the ball rolling. But make sure your touches are motivated, not crude pawing. Examine his cool wristwatch. Flatten his mussed-up collar. Slap away his too-familiar fingers. Crack his neck. Test his kiss-ability quotient. To leave him wanting more, let your touches be fleeting. No clamping your hand on his ass and leaving it there.

11. Isolate, move, and keep developing rapport. Invite him to a quieter corner of the bar, and maybe then outside for a breath of air or to a pizza place you know where you can grab a slice of pizza. Oh, yeah, and maybe your place to check on a pet?

12. Approach the art of seduction as a learnable skill. There are many books on the subject (start with Tony Clink’s book available at Amazon) and the Internet has a host of straight and at least one gay website (listed below) giving tons of seduction advice. Read, participate, question, share. And of course experiment and have fun.

Tips

* It’s not polite to hit on straight men once they’ve made their preferences known. They don’t like it any more than you would like being hit on by a straight woman.

* It’s sometimes possible to pick up straight men if they are suggestible or drunk enough, or if there are special circumstances (like women being present). In the vast majority of cases, trying to pick up a straight man involves getting someone to do something they don’t really enjoy. It’s not nice to pressure or trick people into doing that.

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I was checking around on 365gay.com today and read that Gays are supposly twice as likely to smoke… Now I thought to myself some crazy things… but then I was wondering what scientific evidence would prove such a thing?

Anyways, you should read it and tell me what you think…

(Toronto, Ontario) A study of Canadian gays shows that members of the LGBT community are twice as likely to smoke tobacco as members of the general population.

The research was carried out by a consortium of Toronto health agencies and focused on the city’s LGBT community - the largest in Canada and estimated at close to a half million people.

Called the The Toronto Rainbow Tobacco Survey: A Report on Tobacco Use in Toronto’s LGBTTQ Communities, the report says that 36 percent of LGBT participants reported current smoking, while the latest figures from Toronto Public Health show that 17% of the city’s adults are smokers.

“This confirms what other research from the U.S. has told us about smoking in queer and trans communities,” said Michele Clarke, of the Sherbourne Health Center, one of the groups that participated in the study.

The Canadian Cancer Society, the Center for Addiction and Mental Health, the Council for a Tobacco-Free Toronto and Toronto Public Health also took part in the research.

The Toronto Rainbow Tobacco Survey gathered data from over 3,000 members of Toronto’s LGBTTQ communities from April to July 2006 through outreach at LGBT community events and through an online survey.

The study is the first major look at smoking in Canada’s LGBT community.

The survey also found that 25 percent of those questioned were past smokers and 39 percent had never smoked. That compared with 22 percent of the general Toronto population who were past smokers and 61 percent who never smoked.

The researchers also found that within the LGBT group bisexuals, both male and female, had a higher smoking rate than people who identified as gay or lesbian.

But the highest rate was among LGBT youth. Among those 15 - 19 years of age the rate was 57 percent and 50 percent for those under 15.

“Smoking is a serious health issue for our communities and these higher rates mean that we need more education targeted at LGBTTQ people and more treatment to help them quit,” said Clarke.

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by 365Gay.com Newscenter Staff

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Lance Bass, the former ‘N Sync heartthrob, reveals that he is gay in an exclusive interview with PEOPLE.

“I knew that I was in this popular band and I had four other guys’ careers in my hand, and I knew that if I ever acted on it or even said (that I was gay), it would overpower everything,” says Bass, referring to bandmates Joey Fatone, Chris Kirkpatrick, JC Chasez and Justin Timberlake.

“I didn’t know: Could that be the end of ’N Sync? So I had that weight on me of like, ‘Wow, if I ever let anyone know, it’s bad.’ So I just never did,” he says speaking about his sexual orientation for the first time with PEOPLE.

Now, after years of keeping his personal life private, the Mississippi-bred, Southern Baptist-reared Bass, 27, is publicly revealing what he first shared with his friends, then his shocked family.

Lance Bass: I’m Gay| Lance Bass
“He took years to really think about how he was going to tell everyone,” says his close buddy Fatone, 29, who was the first ‘N Sync bandmate to find out Bass is gay. “I back him up 100 percent.” Adds Bass’s longtime pal, actress Christina Applegate: “I’ve always accepted him as who he is. It’s about his own serenity at this point.”

Having pursued acting, producing and – most memorably – space flight after ’N Sync went on hiatus in 2002, Bass now is looking ahead to new beginnings. He is in a “very stable” relationship with model-actor-Amazing Race winner Reichen Lehmkuhl, 32, and is developing an Odd Couple-inspired sitcom pilot with Fatone in which his character will be gay.

Mostly, though, he’s just enjoying the relief that comes with the culmination of a long, at times emotionally fraught journey.

“The thing is, I’m not ashamed – that’s the one thing I want to say,” he explains of his decision to come out. “I don’t think it’s wrong, I’m not devastated going through this. I’m more liberated and happy than I’ve been my whole life. I’m just happy.”

Sources: People Mag

I say way to go and MAN YOU ARE HOT!!!

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Marriage Amendment Tops Agenda

(Columbia South, Carolina) Pride and politics mixed on the streets of Columbia on Saturday, as organizers of the state’s largest gay pride gathering tried to rally opposition to a constitutional ban on same-sex marriage.

“No one has a right to tell me who to marry or who to love,” said 23-year-old Velvet Wilson of Charleston, who cheered on participates as the parade passed. “People should vote no to this amendment because these are our rights. We live in the United States of America and we the people have rights.”

Armed with a megaphone and signs, small groups of protesters also gathered to show their support for the amendment.

“I want to warn these people … to warn America that it is turning its back on God through supporting homosexuality,” said Lewis B. Rivers, 54, of Columbia. “Homosexuality is evil. It’s an abomination to God. Marriage should be between a man and a woman. There’s no doubt about that.”

James Budenbender and a few members of Concord Baptist Church in Lexington held signs quoting Bible verses.

“I don’t agree with same-sex marriage. I don’t agree with same-sex at all,” Budenbender said. “The Bible is against it and I stand on God’s word.”

Voters will decide in November if the state Constitution should be changed to prohibit same-sex marriages.

State law already bars same-sex unions, but supporters say a constitutional ban is needed because a judge’s ruling could trump the law and force South Carolina to recognize same-sex unions from other states.

“This amendment is not good for anyone,” said Radar Williams, an organizer for this year’s South Carolina Pride parade and festival.

“It even affects heterosexuals. A lot of legal documents may become invalid. Domestic partner benefits may become invalid. You can even have instances where restraining orders for a girl who may be abused by a boyfriend would become invalid because the government would not recognize that union,” Williams said.

Same-sex marriage was the subject of contentious debate in Congress on Thursday as a Senate committee approved a constitutional amendment banning same-sex marriage.

The panel voted along party lines to send the constitutional amendment to the full Senate, after a shouting match that ended when one Democrat walked out and the Republican chairman bid him “good riddance.”

The amendment, which stands little chance of passing in the full Senate, would prohibit states from recognizing same-sex marriages.

Constitutional bans on same-sex marriages in some states, including Georgia, have been subject to legal challenges, Williams said.

A judge on Tuesday struck down Georgia’s ban on same-sex marriage, saying a measure overwhelmingly approved by voters in 2004 violated a rule that limits ballot questions to a single subject.

The judge said Georgia’s voters must first decide whether same-sex relationships should have any legal status before they can be asked whether to ban same-sex marriages.

Organizers of the South Carolina pride event did not rule out the possibility of a lawsuit if the amendment passes.

“We’re not sure at this point what the legal ramifications of this amendment would be,” said Kate Goodrich, president of the South Carolina Gay and Lesbian Pride Movement. “Several lawyers have looked into it and are considering things.”

And there could be other repercussions of the amendment, said Ann Willbrand, delegate for the South Carolina Equality Coalition.

“It could affect anyone who is living in a household that is not a blood relative or married relative,” said Willbrand, 52. “That’s why it’s so nasty. It’s just a cheap shot. It’s cynical. It’s gay-bashing at its worst. And we want to show that South Carolinians are better than this.”

At least 48 vendors and dozens of groups participated in the parade and festival.

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Last night was the greatest night out ever! I went to the bar with a friend of mine and we ended up having a 3-some with another 19 yr old.

Now this is nothing I ever do, I am not one for going out and doing this. I think I had a little too much to drink and could not think clearly. It was alright though because the sex was well worth it. I wish I had pictures of it but my camera phone was not working right. Either-way I think I had too much to drink to even be able to take photos, I just knew where my dick wanted to go. So I was on his bed and he started to take my clothes off, (I am talking about the 19 yr old). Funny I dont even remember his name. I sound like a slut, but anyways he started to suck my cock and I was hard within a second.

Then my friend Mike began to take his pants off, I have not seen a dick so big in my life. I thought mine was big. But I was wrong. Anyways, Mike just stuck his cock in the guys ass without any lube. I thought the guy would scream in pain but he fucking loved it! Mike cum almost right away, I think because his ass was so tight. I was being sucked like ice cream and came in his mouth a couple times.

Well, thats the end because I don’t remember the rest. I believe that is something I will remember for a long time. BTW, my friend Mike did take some photos and I will post them in the members area. If you want access to them, register to post a comment below.

It’s time to stop drooling over those muscles in the Abercrombie ads and start developing some of your own. Remember: Whether you’re a mesomorph, endomorph or ectomorph, the fact is that anybody can morph into a better body — if he has the proper training techniques.

In this spirit, we welcome you to “Worth the Weights,” a series focusing on the art of exercise. Our goal is to help people of all experience levels and body types design sensible routines that work. Through text and images, we will show you the right and the wrong way to lift weights and at the same time strip away the myths and fads of getting fit simply by getting back to basics.

While our opening segments will be geared toward beginners, experienced weight lifters should feel free to relearn the basics, because we’re all about proper from and function.

We also hope to address questions you may have about weight lifting. Let’s start by answering some of the most commonly asked:

What’s so intimidating about the gym?

Let’s face it: Our community puts a lot of importance on self-image and the illusion of the perfect body. So gym beginners with body-image issues can often feel as out of place as Woody Allen at a convention of Abercrombie models. The reality is that 80 percent of the guys in the gym look just like you (talk among yourselves as to whether that’s a good thing) and the muscle studs are a distinct minority (talk among yourselves as to whether that’s a good thing). The gym shouldn’t be a scary place. The playing field is more even than you think.

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“Arrested Development” fans, your wait is over. Portia de Rossi and the rest of the gang are finally back with a new episode at 8 p.m. on Fox. As most of you know, Fox has cut back its order of the comedy, which pretty much brings the series to an end — unless, of course, the rumors of the show being shopped around to other networks are true. Imagine what the show would be like if it were on HBO or Showtime.

“Kitchen Confidential,” which airs directly after “Arrested,” is most likely over. Fox never gave the restaurant comedy a chance to gather an audience, despite its appearance on many critics’ “must see” lists of the new season. The series stars Bradley Cooper as former hot-shot chef Jack Bourdain, who is given a second chance at success. Among his staff is bitchy gay waiter Cameron, played by out actor Sam Pancake. Catch it while you can.

TV Gay Guide hasn’t found anything interesting gay-wise on MTV for a while, but that’s about to change. “Real World/Road Rules Challenge: The Gauntlet II” starts its new season of challenges at 10 p.m. This time it’s the “Veterans” against the “Rookies” for cash and prizes. Playing for the Veterans are Ruthie (”Real World: Hawaii”) and Aneesa (”Real World: Chicago”). And for the Rookies, it’s Danny from “Road Rules: Xtreme.” Yup, they’re all gay.

I thought I should bring this to attention because I am so happy our culture is finally changing

My partner has trouble having an orgasm when we have oral sex, but he has no trouble bringing me to climax. What’s going on?

Answer:

Believe it or not, a lot of men feel that they’re being selfish — or even dirty — if they let a partner bring them to orgasm orally. Your partner may feel that going down on a woman is loving, but having you do the same for him demeans you. Another possibility: Your guy just doesn’t like to see you working so hard to bring him pleasure. He sees your tired jaw and cramped muscles and thinks making love has become work.

Of course, there could be other factors at play. For instance, he may prefer to ejaculate inside of you. Some men think sex just isn’t sex unless the orgasm happens during intercourse. (Or, he may think that you feel that way.) Finally, he may not like the idea of coming in your mouth, possibly because he’s worried that the taste or volume of semen will gross you out.

So what can you do if you really want him to have an orgasm this way? First, start touching him with your hand. If you get him close to orgasm this way, you won’t have to work as long orally before he climaxes. Or alternate between using your hand and your mouth, finally switching to just your mouth when he is very close to ejaculating. That way, he won’t worry that you’re toiling too long.

If none of these tactics works, simply tell him you’d really like to experience him coming in your mouth. Tell him you fantasize about it, that it turns you on. If he thinks he is doing something for you rather than to you, he might be more open to this kind of sex play.

I read this and I was like Oh My God! Some guys dont like oral sex? Seriously I have never met a guy that didnt like this, whether he is straight or not. So I thought I better write a post about it. I want to know… Is there any guys reading this that just dont like to recieve oral sex? I honestly never get enough even if I was able to get felliacio 7 times a day it wouldn’t be enough. I love it when all my semen is swallowed as well, but thats just me. Post your comments and let me know what you think. Do you like getting or recieving head? Guys and girls, there are not enough of you that do this.