If you already know how to masturbate, you might think nobody needs to be told how to do it — but believe it or not, many men have a hard time masturbating. Men proceed to masturbate for 15 or 20 minutes, and then they get bored and give up. If this is you, you’re doing it wrong! Turn off the TV or the X-Box; sometimes, masturbation demands your full attention if you want to go ‘all the way’ with it.
Masturbation with the intent to orgasm is about building up the stimulation over time until your body can’t take it anymore. If you’re having trouble, be sure to use some kind of lubrication, and grip fairly hard. A lot of it is mental, too — concentrate on the feelings you’re producing. Close your eyes and think of the sexiest person or situation you can imagine. It helps if this “fantasy” of yours corresponds to the physical feelings you’re experiencing (ex. you can imagine that this sexy person is masturbating you…) Also, try moving your hips around; contract your pelvic muscles rhythmically as if you were actually thrusting. You can also move your body in rhythm.
Originally posted at TheWhack.